The Sotah: The Unbearable Lightness of Losing it All

This week, in the Parsha of Naso, we have two somewhat strange laws back to back: the law of the sotah - the wife suspected by her husband of committing adultery, and the law of the nazir (nazarite in English, sort of). The former, which certainly raises many problems from a feminist perspective, tells us that when a husband suspects his wife of having been unfaithful, he accuses her, in the Temple, of the crime, and she is forced to either confess or undergo a trial, in which she drinks a concoction which, if she is guilty, will cause her terrible and permanent injury.

Questions and Answers: Passover Parenting

Last week, we marked five years to my father's passing. Every year at this time, a week or so before Passover, the family visits his grave, and we say kaddish, some prayers, and a few words. This year, thinking about my father, I was struck by how central the father/son relationship is to the Passover Seder: The entire text of the Hagadah actually hinges on and revolves around the dynamic of parents trying to get children to ask questions which the parents then answer - Why is this night different? Why are we eating this strange food?

The Impure House and the Real Reality

In this week's parsha we read about a variety of skin diseases which render the sufferer impure. There is a similar category of diseases which appear in houses - some sort of mold or discoloring in the stones. Although the precise details of all of these afflictions (there is a category in clothing as well) are somewhat unclear to us today, there is a very interesting dynamic that takes place when a smitten stone or stones are discovered in the wall of a home.

Consequences: The Rivers Run Red

I recently saw Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth", and was just blown away. Actually, in my case, he was preaching to the converted, as I have long believed that global warming is real (hey, I'm old enough to remember what a real winter is supposed to feel like, and believe me, this is not it).  Al's presentation was powerful, compelling, and, essentially irrefutable - though I know there are some dunderheads out there who are, unbelievably, pretending to refute it.

Freedom, Freedom

In this week's portion, Shemot, the Jewish people are enslaved and oppressed in Egypt, and Moshe begins the process of freeing them. At a critical stage in the narrative, at the burning bush in the desert, where God first reveals Himself to Moshe, He explains His plan: "Go and gather the elders of Israel and tell them: 'the Lord, the God of their fathers has appeared to me; the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, has spoken, saying...I will take you up out of the affliction of Egypt to the land of the Canaanite...to a land flowing with milk and honey'...

Parents and Children

At the beginning of the portion of the week, Yaakov is described as having grown old; his eyesight is poor, he is bedridden, and he is preparing for his death and burial in the Land of Canaan. His son Yosef comes to see him, bringing with him his two sons, Ephraim and Menashe. Yaakov greets them while sitting up on his death-bed, and delivers the first of an extended series of death-bed speeches.

This week's parsha, Vayeira, opens with Abraham convalescing from his very recent circumcision. He sees three strangers passing by, and, in spite of his condition, gets up and runs to greet them, invites them to join him, offers them food and drink, and graciously waits on them as they refresh themselves. This behavior is seen as a model for the traditional Jewish value of hachnassat orchim - welcoming guests into the home - as well as a window into Abraham's character: caring, sensitive to the needs of others, and generous in his desire to help everyone, even strangers.

The Depth of our Commitment to the Land

Today, here in Israel, we are marking the 11th anniversary of Yitzchak Rabin's assassination. The radio is playing sad songs - I've already heard some Leonard Cohen and George Harrison, two certified depressives - the air waves are full of left-wingers and right-wingers slugging it out over who is to blame, have the necessary lessons been learned and can it happen again, and there are commemorative ceremonies all over.

I Create, Therefore I Judge

One of the seminal, foundational texts of Rosh ha-Shanah appears in the Mishna, in the tractate called, appropriately, Rosh ha-Shanah. The Mishna tells us that on Rosh ha-Shanah all the creatures in the world pass before God to be judged like bnei maron - a difficult phrase which either means one at a time, or in single file, or like sheep before the shepherd - something which means individually, personally.

War: a Battle Between Not-so-Righteous and Evil

We are now in the book of Devarim (Deuteronomy), and, as we move along towards the Torah's closing portions, we see a lot of material relating to the impending entry into the Land of Israel and the subsequent battles which will take place with the Canaanites. This week's parsha, Eikev, has an interesting little imaginary conversation which takes place between Moshe and the Jewish people:

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